Elvis Presley Blue Christmas

Self Disipline

I am strong because I’ve been weak.

I’m fearless because I've been afraid. I'm wise because I’ve been Foolish.Without the Children, Family, one and all, tomorrow wouldn't be worth the wait. Yesterday not worth remembering. They are the beat of my heart. They are the circulation, the pulse in my veins. Though Nature, the Creator, gave me life, they, My Children always; are that which gives me energy.

YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS; WILL EVER KNOW; WHEN YOU ARE SIMPLY USING ANOTHER CRUTCH TO PROTECT YOUR INSECURITY; IN AN ATTEMPT TO KEEP YOUR EGO TOGETHER; WHEN YOU’RE ABOUT TO COME UNRAVELED, LET THINGS ALL FALL OUT; OR LETTING THE WORLD COME, AS IT IS AND MAY-WORKING WITH NATURE FATHER THAN STRUGGLING AGAINST-IN AN IMPOSSIBLE ATTEMPT TO DEFEAT. YOU’RE THE ONLY ONE WHO ***KNOWS***.

FRUITS OF SELF CONTROL

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·         Taking time to Meditate/Think.Mastering of moods.

·         Restraint of Re-Actions.

·         Never having to feel any need to Apologise.

·         Remembering-past is PAST an appology changes nothing- therefore is of NO VALUE -EVER.

You are always responsible for how you act, no matter how you may feel at any time in any place. REMEMBER THAT

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What Real Friendship, True Love Means

True Love can not expire.
The other kind, I do decline;
never shall be,
what I require.
Real Friendship does not conspire.
Real Friendship, is not Trendship;
Like real love; true friendship
can not expire.
The other kind; no thanks;
Pray never shall be, so inclined.
Al (Alex-Alexander) D Girvan.

FATHER’S DAY, Including Single Fathers

Don’t take away from the Fathers that must do in on their own. We don’t use the day to call out all the to call out all the “Dead Beat Mamas. 

 No, we let the Real Mothers have what was meant to be their day With Respect. Please do the same for us. Remember narcists don’t co-parent; they counter parent.  They interfere. They don’t care about the collateral or the emotional damage done to a child, just so long as it hurts US. I didn’t set out to be a single father or parent; most of us do not. I set out to be the best parent I knew how to be. Most of us do…and that hasn’t changed. So, if you left any of us without a reason; do not come back with your excuses. A real father; a real man takes care of the fruit of his loins; his children, no matter what the relationship may be or have been with the mother of HIS child, HE GAVE LIFE. Some days, he has no idea how to do it. But, each and every single day, one day at a time, it always gets done.--Al (Alex-Alexander) D. Girvan

I'll Love you Forever, the Child I Made

 

I AM DAD

FATHER, PROVIDER, PROTECTOR, TEACHER, CHEF.

HOUSEKEEPER, CHINESE LAUNDRY, COACH CHAUFFEUR, NURSE;

STORYTELLER, MONSTER KILLER, PLANNER ORGANISER,

DECORATOR, CRAFTER, MULTI-TASKING KING, SUPERMAN, AND FRIEND,

AND YES, THOUGH YOUR MOTHER CARRIED YOU;

‘TWAS I WHO GAVE YOU LIFE.

Most, anyone can have a child;

 “a parent”, call themselves.

The real parent is the one put that child

 above their own selfish needs or wants.

When a father makes the decision to create a child,

he’s also making the decision to take responsibility for that child.

A father never abandons his obligation as a parent,

because he’s tired, has “other plans”.

The father’s love begins, long before the child is born,

and lasts until the end of time,
through difficulties and differences;

many scars and wounds.

Days of sorrow, winding, wearing, weeping sharing,

ever changing.

Until at the end what remains; is that solid core;

that began as His Love before the child was born ©. Al (Alex, Alexander) D Girvan.